18 Solid Pieces Of Advice About How To Deal With Men

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AmyBrown
Mar 20, 2019 2:00 PM EDT

Who knows how to deal with men better than men themselves? 18 men share some solid pieces of advice when it comes to dating and how to handle men. 

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    Youth - Ladies, we don't care how popular (or unpopular) you are among other women. So these things shouldn't affect your self-esteem in a relationship. CMongoOse
    via @Mongo0se
  • 02
    Sports - 970-847-3489 Guys love it when you throw a thing to them instead of just handing it over. Candytheg
    via @andytheg
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    Text - At times, we're desperate for human touch. Perhaps this only applies to American dudes, I don't know. Anyway, next time you're sitting on the sofa with your boyfriend, just scratch him behind the ear or pat him on the back or something. Whenever l'm upset |and fixated on problems, such actions on the part of my girtfriend help me come to my senses and enjoy life once again. Thadota7717
    via @Thedota7717
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    Garden roses - If you want something to happen between you and the guy you like, you must take a step forward and meet him halfway. If he's not making the first move, he's probably trying his best not to screw up. eShermanator92
    via @Shermanator92
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    Fun - einiceahatm.ca Guys enjoy being asked out on a date as well. CIAmMohit
    via @IAmMohit
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    Text - Ladies, when guys want to be alone, this doesn't mean that they don't want to be with you. They just want to be alone. Caestusveritas
    via @aestusveritas
  • 07
    Facial expression - Once, my female colleague asked me to fix her car. I helped her out but got very dirty in the process. She asked if I wanted to come inside and take a shower. I declined because I didn't have a clean change of clothes. The girl only giggled in response. Yeah, we guys aren't very smart when it comes to reading between the lines! ClohnnyMopper
    via @JohnnyMopper
  • 08
    Text - We feel enormous social pressure. We're expected to be strong and unemotional, to support others, and to earn money. Often, we don't know how to achieve all this and we feel scared. But we realize that we have no right to be afraid to ask for help. As a result, we experience constant stress. | @lmprovobsession
    via @Improv0bession
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    Text - When someone is crying, a guy's first urge is to try to solve the problem. But in cases of female tears, the reasons often run too deep to find a quick solution. So, it's better to say something along the lines of: "I want to be alone," or "I need you to listen to me." Just let the guy know that you need moral support and not some immediate action @realbadaccountant
    via @realbadaccountant
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    Product - Sometimes, when a guy is looking at you, he's really not. His eyes might be fixed in your direction, but he's lost in thoughts about how he would've opened a brewery in medieval England. QUVLsystem
    via @UVLsystem
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    Text - Often, us guys just can't get a hint. For example, saying, "The driveway's so slippery, I almost broke my neck," isn't enough to make your man do something about the problem. He'll simply think, "Gotta be careful out on the street today." Now, a phrase like, "Darling, get a shovel and remove the ice from the driveway," has a much better chance of success. 7 eK2000kidd
    via @K2000kidd
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    Cartoon - When we get home from work, we need a period of rest. Driving home doesn't count. Give us 20-30 minutes of doing absolutely nothing. This helps our brain and body realize that the day's work is over and it's time to stop thinking about it. @frozenartic
    via @frozemartic
  • 13
    Text - Many men have anxiety and/or depression, but they won't talk about it and will be annoyed if you raise the issue. jamestarl122
    via @jamestar1122
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    Text - Your best chance of getting what you want from a guy is to tell him everything outright. @DepressedBard
    via @DepressedBard
  • 15
    Games - We often have silly hobbies and if a woman takes even the slightest interest in them, we appreciate this greatly. I'm a gamer and my wife often watches me play, asking questions and generally showing her fascination with what I'm doing. This feels really amazing! OBluelantern84
    via @Bluelantern84
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    Nature - We don't expect you to look stunning forever. After all, we're growing older side by side. At times, we stll see you the way you were 30 years ago-the wrinkles and stuff simply disappear. There are other moments when we look at you and notice all the signs of aging. There's beauty in that as well. @Duesizzle
    via @Duesizzle
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    Text - Men are by no means immune to mental health problems. Many of us have depression, anxiety, and body problems. Please, recognize this. The guys who have such difficulties are often looked down upon because all men are supposed to be sociable and confident. Mental health issues concern everyone- it's a very serious thing that should be talked about more frequently (especially by men) @lwaspromisedjetpacks
    via @Iwaspromisedjetpacks
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    Text - We genuinely don't care about where to go on a date or what place to choose to dine at. If a guy feels hungry on a date, any food will do. The main thing is that he's spending time with the object of his affection! @Rabidrabitz
    via @Rabidradbitz

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